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Homosexuality, Scripture and Church
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Posted by: George Day |
Saturday 7 January 2006 - 05:30pm |
| A lot of the debate going on in this area is naturally enough about how we cope with the disagreements in the church. For example, near the start of this thread Roger Harper called for a conference on "What do we do in the Church when we disagree on an issue such as same sex marriage?" Such a conference could be very helpful. But perhaps we also need more debate about the issue that has sparked off the disagreements, i.e. how we respond to those who are in homosexual relationships.
I have recently moved to be vicar of a church in which two of the leading members are a lesbian couple, deeply committed to each other, supported by their respective families, deeply committed to faith in Christ, and supported by (at the very least) the vast majority of church members, (and incidentally, just about to register their civil partnership). They are also among the members of the church whom my wife and I find to be our most natural friends in this new parish. Suddenly all the debates about homosexuality become real!
Not so long ago I would have been quite clear that all homosexual sexual relations are wrong, and that even if one stayed in fellowship with practising homosexuals one still had to regard what they are doing as sinful. Perhaps that should still be the case, perhaps not, but I feel far, far less confident that it should be.
The late Michael Vasey, whose book "Strangers and Friends" I am currently reading, was an evangelical who from his own experience sought to help evangelical Christians think afresh about this issue. But there is perhaps no obvious successor to champion that side of the debate and hence the risk of the debate being one-sided, and ending up with a complacent feeling that "we" are right and "they" are wrong.
So my plea is for an honest and open debate, that includes listening to those of homosexual orientation (or whatever word should replace that if you accept Alan Storkey's arguments). Are there perhaps any hidden Michael Vasey's within the Fulcrum membership who would be prepared to stick their necks out and contribute? |
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Posted by: Karen Springer |
Monday 2 January 2006 - 10:07pm |
| Please also see Ian Paul's post of Friday 28 October 2005 on this Forum's Civil Partnership thread. Also my posting of Friday 30 December 2005 on this Forum's "Irregular Ordinations" in Southwark thread.
Happy New Year ! |
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Posted by: Ken Sawyer |
Saturday 31 December 2005 - 02:13pm |
I wonder whether there is a Fulcrum view of the new press release from Anglican Mainstream, and the letter (presumably that of September 16th) presented at Lambeth Palace on December 29th?
If, as claimed, it was signed personally "by over 1700 people, including 290 clergy and two Bishops from 260 churches in 38 dioceses" it hardly covers the mainstream of evangelicals in the C of E.
And what is the mainstream? Who is in and who is out? |
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Posted by: Karen Springer |
Saturday 31 December 2005 - 12:08am |
| CIVIL PARTNERSHIP. An interesting article by Simon Sarmiento on Thinking Anglicans posted 30/12/2005 at 10:15pm. He examines the numbers of clergy and parishes involved in signing Anglican Mainstream's letter to ++Canterbury expressing their disquiet at the pastoral situation created in the Church by the Civil Partnership Act. |
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Posted by: Obadiahslope |
Wednesday 21 December 2005 - 12:51pm |
| "We'll have to come to some arrangement that allows you to go ahead as you believe you are being led, and also allows us not to go down that road."
Easier said than done, I fear. Consider the group of evangelicals in New Hampshire. The pro-gay group in the diocese was large enough to elect a gay bishop. To be allowed "not to go down that road" meant they had to leave the Episcopal church. |
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Posted by: Roger Harper |
Wednesday 21 December 2005 - 08:47am |
Dear 867
Where do your thoughts and feelings leave you? Not alone! Be encouraged.
Yes such a conference as I propose would be very hard to do, and would probably need to begin with repentance for stridency and worse. But isn't the hard thing the very thing that Jesus often calls us to do? Please see if other people can support the call for this kind of conference.
I think a proper evangelical approach is 'We think we're right. But then you think you're right and we are brothers and sisters in Christ. I can't rule out the possibility that you might be right. I can't go along with you at the moment. But I accept your desire to move ahead with this (homosexual practice) development as part of the family. We'll have to come to some arrangement that allows you to go ahead as you believe you are being led, and also allows us not to go down that road. We won't be so united as before, but we affirm that we are still brothers and sisters together."
How does that sound?
Roger Harper |
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Posted by: Karen Springer |
Monday 19 December 2005 - 08:38pm |
| Hi User 867, I'd decided not to post until after Christmas - best laid plans etc.
Maybe we need to go to a deeper level with all of this. Maybe we should be discussing the response of christians to apparent actual sin (of any kind) when found in other christians, or within our own selves.
How does God's Grace deal with christians' sins post conversion to Christ. When a christian sins is the same level of judgment applied to them as to those who have not accepted the Saviour? Also do we perhaps sublimally operate on an assumption that conversion also means that we stop sinning? We may stop particular sins but we will continue in others which may be less obvious. We have all heard of spectacular conversions where the person permanently ceased to sin in a particular area but they may still have undealt with sin/issues to be dealt with by the Holy Spirit. My experience with conservatism is that christians are told to not sin on the basis that a particular activity is stated to be sinful in the bible. If the bible says do a certain thing - or not - simply act accordingly. There seems to be no room for individuals, that is all of us, to seek and receive the healing we need. We cannot simply apply the law of God without God's Holy Spirit. We need head knowledge but it must be combined with heart knowledge or as one friend once said to me, " I've greeked it; now I need to hebrew it ".
So many christians fall away or are less than they should be because they cannot cope with their continuous sins. They do things that they can't stop doing and are unable to seek the counsel, the prayer or the healing ministry. They may hide things behind a facade or they may give in to sin because they can't find the strength to do as the bible tells them.
We need to look at how we couch our phrases in liturgy. I have long questioned why we say things like "I am not worthy". What is the context of this? We evangelicals are quite happy to sell "the made worthy" concept when seeking a conversion or rallying the troops at a lively worship meeting. So why are we equally happy to say things as though Christ hasn't made us worthy. What does this say to people, especially those who are uncertain of their salvation or are struggling with their knowledge of their feelings or actions which are sinful.
I AM NOT SAYING THAT CHRISTIANS DO NOT NEED TO DEAL WITH SIN OR THAT THEY DO NOT SIN. I AM ASKING HOW DO WE DEAL WITH SIN SO AS TO LEAD CHRISTIANS CLOSER TO GOD RATHER LEAD THEM INTO THE DESPAIR OF NEVER BEING GOOD ENOUGH.
One way that people deal with not being good enough is to reject God, others look for scriptures or "omissions" in scripture to justify staying where they are at; others suffer fearfully in their pews hoping not to betray themselves. Is this because we actually emphasise the power of sin as being greater than the transforming power of the Cross? Because, unfortunately, that is the impression I have of f the belief level of many lay people I know - and it is heart breaking. One woman of many years in Christ, told me that she was still a dirty sinner. What should I say to such a person? Has she been made worthy or not? Oh and by the way she said like she meant it, and not like a formulaic evangelical saying. I showed her scriptures that showed her who she was in Christ but she was still unsure. This woman has been a christian (anglican) longer than I've been alive. Have all those consecutive sundays of saying I am not worthy effected her understanding? Of course this type of understanding isn't confined to anglicans or evangelicals.
Perhaps we should go to a deeper level kind of conference to look at the specific operation of God's Grace towards (A) all mankind, (B) christians, (C) those who refuse Christ, or the difference between Wrath and Judgement? Or on Sin.
With regard to Homosexuality - any conference would need to start in humility and brotherly love. We should wash one anothers feet and worship God together. We shouldn't not do it because we are too divided we should do it because we are too divided.
Happy Christmas and New Year.
Karen
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Posted by: Deleted user 867 |
Monday 19 December 2005 - 01:39pm |
| It would be difficult for any evangelical organisation I am aware of to hold a conference of any description, looking at Homosexuality (or any other issue for that matter) with grace and humility. That is a broad sweeping statement, but endemic in many evangelical churches (not just those with a leaning towards Reform) is their starting point is this, "We are right". That doesn't immediately say everyone else is wrong, but it does say "you aren't as right as we are unless you agree." which amounts to the same thing. Added to this is my constant struggle with anything that Jesus himself is not recorded as voicing an opinion on. He has much to say about pride, "thank you Lord that I am not like that sinner (Homosexual?)" - I would rather be warm hearted an uncertain, than cold hearted and sure - but where does that leave me as an evangelical? |
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Posted by: Roger Harper |
Saturday 17 December 2005 - 09:40pm |
Alan Storkey seems to be saying "Homosexuality is not a fixed orientation - so the Church should not treat it as such. But homosexuality is not the only, nor even the most serious sexual moral issue confronting us now."
Amen to both these statements. There are a number of good arguments to see the push towards same sex marriage as not of the Holy Spirit, and Alan presents one of them. As evangelicals we hold to the possibility and necessity of change. To adapt Just as I am, I come to Just as I am, I stay is a travesty both of the hymn and of Biblical morality. Knowing the evidence that homosexual desire is not fixed and is influenced by culture, helps us to argue this more confidently.
The trouble with this argument, we must also recognise, is that, by and large, Christians have failed to enable people to change their homosexual inclinations, even when the people concerned have deeply wanted to become normal heterosexual. More work needs to be done on how we flesh out our belief in the ability of the Holy Spirit to bring about this kind of change.
It is also true that our focus has been too much on homosexuality and we have allowed the practice of drifting into cohabitation before or instead of marriage, with virtually no coherent Church response. Even the sex education in our Church Secondary Schools presents how to use a condom and not the approach of the Romance Academy seen on TV this year. It is good that Alan is drawing our attention to this.
After 2 Amens, I would also like to offer 2 criticisms.
Firstly Alans tone is still too strident. At the beginning he looks to a process of public debate followed by an outpouring of humility. Why that order? Surely the humility should come first. In this season we celebrate the One full of grace and truth, in that order. We too should be people of grace and truth in that order. A huge problem with the approach of Conservative Evangelicals is that they put truth before and even at the expense of grace, not necessarily in what they argue but in the way that they argue it. Acknowledging the flaw in our argument, as above, would be one way of beginning to be more humble. Refraining from using such language as As anyone half awake knows& The bluster of the gay lobby is not good enough, would also be a good step. Even if proponents of same sex marriage do not themselves adopt a graceful attitude, that does mean that opponents should follow suit.
Secondly, like many sermons, Alans article has good points but is weak on the so what? So what does this mean for the Church where we are now? Does it mean that we continue to fight as we have been doing, surer of the high moral, and sociological, ground? Or does it mean that we recognise that we are blowing this issue up out of proportion, and need to spend less time and energy on it? It would be helpful for Alan to work out the implications of what he is arguing.
Alan, in his second point, has, I think, begun to express a sense that homosexual practice is not a Primary Issue. Mainstream say that it is and that therefore we should seriously consider breaking fellowship over this issue. If some people are fixating on homosexuality to the virtual exclusion of other crises shouldnt we be addressing this by challenging or at least debating if homosexual practice is a Primary Issue or not? Or all the issues Alan lists 'Primary'? Why are we not breaking fellowship with liberals over them?
Fulcrum is in a unique position to hold such a debate, in as much grace and humility as we can find. PLEASE can we do this? A conference open to ordained and lay, UK and overseas, specifically addressing the question: What do we do in the Church when we disagree on an issue such as same sex marriage? Tom Wright has argued that this is the question before us. So far NEAC and Fulcrum have refused to address it squarely. We need to do this soon.
Roger Harper |
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Posted by: Karen Springer |
Wednesday 14 December 2005 - 01:48pm |
| Sorry Ken. You are right. I should have said "some" laity and "some" parishes.
Best Wishes,
Karen |
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Posted by: Ken Sawyer |
Wednesday 14 December 2005 - 01:39pm |
Karen Springer writes: "It is becoming increasingly difficult for ordinary lay people in evangelical parishes to wade through some of the "stuff " being presented to them by some groups."
Surely that applies only in "some" evangelical parishes. The "stuff" she has become concerned about emanates mainly in parishes linked to Reform or where clergy have that affiliation. It may even depend on which theological college a clergyperson trained at!
There must be many parishes where laity do not have this problem. |
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Posted by: Karen Springer |
Wednesday 14 December 2005 - 01:09pm |
| In response to Roger Harper here is a separate thread for the matter of homosexuality; an issue rather different from the matter of women in scripture and the church.
What do this Forum's users think of Alan Storkey's article "Resolving the gay issue"? on the TitusOneNine blog. You can link to the site via Fulcrum's Newswatch page (listed on 06/12/2005). The comments posted by readers of the Titusonenine blog are interesting too.
Would the Fulcrum leadership consider a Conference or a Speaking/Teaching tour aimed at Anglican laity to show that there is an evangelical strand within the CofE which, whilst biblical on matters of sexuality, has a different approach to other groups? It is becoming increasingly difficult for ordinary lay people in evangelical parishes to wade through some of the "stuff " being presented to them by some groups. In my experience I found that we were being given worst case scenarios rather than balanced reports. People may also be being stressed by the coverage in the secular media. I know I was certainly confused about some issues until I found Fulcrum. I found Fulcrum purely by accident when I was googling for info. about women bishops.
Best Wishes
Karen |
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